Know your Ownersand Victims

Hello my dear people on the earth thank you for kind  friendship and visits you make at this blog. this is New post about Know your Owners and Victims.With the owners in your life, you do not need techniques.just appreciate them.With the victims,be patient. Hear their feelings out empathetically.You can emphasize with their feelings with out buying in to their Victims Viewpoint.Show them the other view. Live if for them.they will see with their own eyes that it gets better results.

In the end,even if we were to train your staff in ownership thinking,you would still have to lead them there every day,or it would be easy to lose. Figure your own ways to lead them there.Design ways that incorporate your own personality and style into it. There is no magic Prescription.There is only commitment.People who are committed to having a team of self - responsible,creative,upbeat people will get exactly that. Leader's whose committment is not there won't get it.The three basic things you can do are 1.Reward ownership wherever you see it.2.Be an owner yourself.3.Take full responsibility for your staffs morale and performance.

How do you turn around a victim without appearing to be that annoying "positive thinker?"

You do not have to come off as an annoyiong positive thinker to be a true leader.Just be a realistic, honest and upbeat.Focus on opportunities and possibilities. Do not gossip or run down other people. There is no reliable trick that always works,but in my experience,when you are a really strong example of ownership,and you clearly acknowledge it and reward it and notice it in other people,it gets harder and harder for people to play victim in that setting. Remember that being a victim is essentially a racket.It is a manipulation.YOu do not have to pretend that it is a valid point of view intellectually,because it is not."

Ownership,by its nature,is grown by the owner of the ownership.But you can encourageit,and nourish it when you see it. You can nurture it and reward it. you can celebrate it.You do not make it grow,but if you do certain things,it will appear."

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